Safety Tips

Let matches know when you're typically free to chat, but keep exact camp names, depot locations, and shift start times private until you really trust someone.

Stay on Roster Hearts messaging until you feel comfortable. Don't rush to give out your phone number, social media, or work email.

First dates should be in public, well-lit places. Tell a friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back.

If someone ignores your boundaries, pressures you, or makes you feel unsafe, use the block and report tools. You don't owe anyone a second chance.

Be cautious of people who ask for money, want to move conversations to encrypted apps immediately, refuse to verify photos, or push to meet in private before you're ready.

Shift workers are often tired, in remote areas, or managing safety-critical jobs. If someone says they're not in a good headspace to chat, respect that. A real connection will wait for home time.

If something feels off, it probably is. Don't let the desire to connect override your safety. The right person will understand and respect your boundaries.